Embrace your true self, actor tell graduates

Embrace your true self, actor tell graduates

Honorary degree recipient Wendy Crewson encourages graduating students to be honest with themselves

By Anne Craig

June 8, 2016

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Queen鈥檚 is reserving its honorary degrees in 2016 for alumni in celebration of the university鈥檚 175th anniversary. Throughout spring convocation, The Gazette will profile all 11 honorary degree recipients and explore how Queen鈥檚 has impacted their life and career.

Veteran actor and Queen鈥檚 alumna Wendy Crewson offered an impactful message to graduating students after accepting her honorary degree Wednesday.

鈥淏ecoming my most authentic self gave me strength and made everything in my life richer,鈥 says Ms. Crewson, who revealed she was gay during a television appearance in December 2014. 鈥淲e all have that one thing that鈥檚 quirky, or weird, or different. We need to embrace it and be honest with ourselves.鈥

Ms. Crewson said being gay didn鈥檛 fit into her picture of becoming a leading lady in film and television. Her perspective changed after portraying several significant Canadian women. Playing those roles helped her realize that those women had the courage she was looking for to recognize the part of her life she had hidden even from herself.

鈥淵ou need to figure out who you are and everything will be okay. I realized at 48 I was gay. I had played the wife of half the leading men in Hollywood and I鈥檓 gay? I thought 鈥榟ow am I ever going to face that or admit it, never mind embrace it?鈥欌 Ms. Crewson said during her convocation address. 鈥淣ow I know a lot of you might be thinking 鈥榞ay, so what?鈥 or 鈥榳hat took you so long?鈥 And thank God you are thinking that because it means things have changed, but way back then, it wasn鈥檛 like that. It was secret and maybe shameful.鈥

Wendy Crewson says she is humbled and honoured to receive an honorary degree from Queen's.

From a young age, Ms. Crewson knew she wanted to act. With only three schools in Canada offering a drama program, she chose Queen鈥檚, which she has never regretted. She started out in the English program but soon switched to drama.

鈥淭he faculty here always supported me and made me believe anything was possible and that I was good enough to go into the world. There was also so much theatre happening in Kingston and that made it seem like a life I could have. This community is so creative.鈥

After graduating in 1977, Ms. Crewson acted in both Canadian and American film and television productions including Air Force One with Harrison Ford, The Santa Clause film series opposite Tim Allen and Saving Hope as Dr. Dana Kinney.

Despite a successful career on both the big and small screens, Ms. Crewson admits she thought there had been a mistake when she opened the letter from Queen鈥檚 inviting her to receive an honorary degree.

鈥淚 really couldn鈥檛 believe or understand what I was reading,鈥 she said with a smile. 鈥淚鈥檓 thrilled and disbelieving and humbled and honoured.鈥