If These Walls Could Talk

鈥業 could have stayed there forever鈥

Illustration of a one-and-a-half story brick house, with a front porch and picture window.

Illustration by Wendy Treverton

In the 1950s, Mary 鈥淢ay鈥 Macdonnell, BA鈥10, MA鈥11, was a retired classics professor maintaining a prim and proper house at 104 Queen鈥檚 Crescent (now Bader Lane). Research by Kingston architectural historian Jennifer McKendry suggests she bought the graceful one-and-a-half-storey brick house when it was built in the 1920s, shortly after she made history as one of the first two female professors hired by Queen鈥檚. 

In 1956, Professor Macdonnell agreed, somewhat reluctantly, to let Joyce Milligan, Arts鈥58, share her home. Normally, Professor Macdonnell took in only one Queen鈥檚 student, but was persuaded to accommodate Ms. Milligan, her current roomer鈥檚 friend, as well. She knew that, even in the 鈥50s, it wasn鈥檛 always easy for women to find housing near campus. 

鈥淪he made an exception,鈥 says Ms. Milligan. 鈥淪he offered to let me in. I think she regretted it; she only ever wanted one.鈥  

Ms. Milligan had spent her first two years at Queen鈥檚 in residence at Ban Righ Hall, her second year as a proctor. In a way, she could thank the professor for that lodging as well. 

In 1911, Professor Macdonnell had been on the executive of the Queen鈥檚 Alumnae Association that began the fight to build Ban Righ, the university鈥檚 first women鈥檚 residence. The university鈥檚 board of trustees was lukewarm to the project, but gave in when the Alumnae Association raised $80,000, half the building鈥檚 cost, through teas, bake sales, and bridge parties. Ban Righ opened in 1925. 

Ms. Milligan鈥檚 arrangement with Professor Macdonnell was for room, not board. She had a tiny bedroom 鈥渨ith a straw mattress that would crunch when you came in late at night,鈥 but she continued to take her meals at Ban Righ, just down the street. Professor Macdonnell offered one bit of formal hospitality, however: every afternoon 鈥渟he rang a little bell and 鈥 you would go down for tea in her parlour,鈥 recalls Ms. Milligan. 鈥淚t was very proper.鈥 

Ms. Milligan remembers Professor Macdonnell as 鈥渁 very buttoned-up retired Latin teacher.鈥 But, she says, 鈥渟he was nice; you couldn鈥檛 help but like her.鈥 

Ms. Milligan鈥檚 social life was a sore point for her landlady, though Professor Macdonnell鈥檚 dismay was never voiced aloud. When Ms. Milligan went out on dates with the Royal Military College cadet who would become her husband, Professor Macdonnell 鈥渨ould throw open the [bedroom] window and let the snow blow in,鈥 says Ms. Milligan. 鈥淪he let me know that we should be studying and not dating.鈥 

Ms. Milligan鈥檚 father had expected her to attend his alma mater, McGill, but she 鈥渏ust liked the idea of a nice little university on a lake with bagpipes.鈥 She had grown up in Cornwall listening to her uncle鈥檚 regiment, the Pipes and Drums of the Stormont, Dundas and Glengarry Highlanders. 鈥淚 needed the pipes,鈥 she says. 

Her break with tradition started a new one. Her younger brother studied medicine at Queen鈥檚 and many of the family鈥檚 generations since are Queen鈥檚 alumni.  

After leaving the university in 1957, Ms. Milligan found herself back on campus in 1960 when her then-husband joined Queen鈥檚 first MBA class. She found work in the Douglas Library and fondly remembers colleagues from her six years there, including longtime Chief Librarian Henry Pearson Gundy. 

Ms. Milligan hopes to attend her 65th class reunion this fall, but she won鈥檛 be able to visit her old digs at 104 Queen鈥檚 Crescent. Professor Macdonnell sold the home to the university in 1966 and it was razed more than 30 years later, likely to make way for the construction of early this century. 

Queen鈥檚 鈥渨as a part of my blood; I could have stayed there forever 鈥 I loved it,鈥 Ms. Milligan says. 鈥淏ut it was my years [at Ban Righ] and then Queen鈥檚 Crescent that introduced me to life at Queen鈥檚.鈥  


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