[Melanie Gray with Chancellor Jim Leech at Convocation]
Melanie Gray with Chancellor Jim Leech at Convocation

One Student鈥檚 Journey From Heartbreak To Graduation

Two life-changing events happened during Melanie Gray鈥檚 time at Queen鈥檚. Her mother died of cancer which meant she became the legal guardian to her two younger brothers, and she received a major bursary which allowed her to stay at Queen鈥檚 despite her family鈥檚 financial hardships.

Without that funding, the Artsci鈥16 graduate would likely not have been able to walk across the convocation stage in Grant Hall on June 7.

鈥淚t was a life-changing moment when I received the . I will be forever grateful to the Queen鈥檚 alumni family that was there to support me as I struggled to take care of my own family,鈥 says Melanie.

She is one of many students who benefited from the Initiative Campaign. The 10-year fundraising campaign at Queen鈥檚 recently wrapped up on April 30, 2016, totalling more than $640 million in donations to the University, including $85 million in support of scholarships and bursaries.

The Art History student鈥檚 first few years at Queen鈥檚 were divided between going to class and taking her mother, Lauren, to chemotherapy at Kingston General Hospital. Lauren believed in the value of education and was proud her daughter was attending Queen鈥檚.

鈥淓ducation was always her number-one priority. She grew up on a reserve in poverty and never graduated from high school. She wanted all her children to get a degree and kept telling us not to worry and focus on school,鈥 says Melanie.

Melanie Gray at Four Directions

Lauren鈥檚 long battle with cancer ended on March 18, 2014 when she passed away a few days before Melanie鈥檚 21st birthday. Melanie tried to keep herself busy to help cope with the grief. She co-founded a well-being circle for Indigenous students at the Four Directions Aboriginal Student Centre and was president of the Queen鈥檚 Native Student Association.

The hardships continued as financial stress replaced her mother鈥檚 health issues. The family home was in need of urgent repairs, and she could barely provide her family鈥檚 basic needs. Life was 鈥渙ne step forward and ten steps back.鈥 The stress was overwhelming as Melanie considered dropping out of Queen鈥檚 to find a job.

Fortunately, the Queen鈥檚 community offered support. She received guidance and financial aid from Queen鈥檚 Financial Assistance, Ban Righ Centre, and the Chaplain鈥檚 office. It was the Anne Shaw Hudson Bursary that gave her the freedom to focus on her education and not worry about paying bills. As a result, she was able to find her passion for learning and her grades went up dramatically.

鈥淚 truly hope people understand how much their donations to Queen鈥檚 can change a student鈥檚 life.鈥