The Lee Family's legacy of love

Exterior of Lee's Laundry on the corner of Earl and Division Street.

On the southeast corner of 颅Division and Earl streets, surrounded by student housing, stands the modest red-brick house that for almost a half century was home to Lee鈥檚 Laundry. Nearby residents, professors, and nurses lauded its proprietors鈥 unmatched ability to launder and press everything from pants and shirts to tablecloths, 颅collars, and nurses鈥 caps.

Lee鈥檚 Laundry provided a useful, reliable, and conveniently located service, but that鈥檚 not why it remains a touchstone for many Kingstonians and Queen鈥檚 alumni. Their memories typically centre on the laundry鈥檚 owners, Donald Benedict Lee and Betty Ngan-Woon Lee, who by all accounts were quiet-spoken, warm, welcoming, always willing to share stories, and always responsive to their customers鈥 needs. The couple emigrated from China to start a family in Canada, so that their children would have better opportunities, and they owned and operated the full-service laundry as a true partnership. 

The Lees, Betty and Donald, raised 16 kids - all of whom are Queen's alumni. (Supplied photo)

What鈥檚 most remarkable about the Lees is not just that they had 16 offspring, but that every one of them 鈥 Jack, Edward, Kent, Susan, Judith, Sandy, Margaret, Neil, Andrew, Beverly, Michael, Linda, Anita, Elizabeth, Cynthia, and Victoria 鈥 attended nearby Sydenham Public School and/or Victoria Public School (whose structure is now incorporated into Queen鈥檚 School of Business), Kingston Collegiate and Vocational Institute (KCVI), and ultimately, Queen鈥檚. Over the years the Lee children earned undergrad degrees in Engineering, Commerce, Arts and Science, and Education, and Master鈥檚 degrees in Engineering, Business, and Science. This is arguably the largest number of children sharing the same parents to have become Queen鈥檚 alumni.

It鈥檚 hard enough work to raise one or two kids, let alone put them through 颅university. How the Lees managed the feat with 16 children is difficult to fathom 鈥 unless you鈥檙e one of those kids.

鈥淢y parents achieved the grades to 颅attend university, but were unable to do so for financial reasons, and they always placed a lot of value on higher education,鈥 says Jack Lee, Sc鈥84, the eldest of Donald and Betty鈥檚 children. 鈥淥bviously they were incredibly hard workers, and they instilled that work ethic in all of us.鈥

  • The Lees, Betty and Donald, raised 16 kids - all of whom are 成人大片 alumni.

    The Lees, Betty and Donald, raised 16 kids - all of whom are 成人大片 alumni.

  • The nine Lee girls

    The nine Lee girls

  • Seven sons

    Seven sons

The truth of that statement is borne out by the academic and extracurricular achievements of the Lee siblings. Throughout their school days they often found themselves at the head of their class and won bursaries, scholarships, and awards. They worked at the laundry and had paper routes. They participated and excelled in public speaking contests, athletic competitions, and science fairs. Cynthia, Com鈥06, graduated as the top student at KCVI. Victoria, Sc鈥07, graduated with the Gold Medal in Mechanical 颅Engineering.

Susan Billings, now retired, taught the five youngest Lee sisters at Sydenham Public School. 鈥淸Donald and Betty] were proud of all of their kids.鈥 She recalls. 鈥淲henever I took clothes to the laundry, they were always happy to hear how well their kids were doing.鈥

Donald passed away in 2009, an event that prompted his wife to close the laundry. Betty passed away on May 10. Almost immediately the Lee children came together to 颅devise a way to honour their parents.

This was the genesis of the Donald 颅Benedict Lee and Betty Ngan-Woon Lee Memorial Award, which will be given to one or more Kingston students entering first-year studies at Queen鈥檚. Although all Kingston highschoolers are eligible to 颅apply, preference will be given to those from KCVI. Each award will be based on financial need and 颅academic merit. 鈥淭he 颅importance of the opportunity for continuing 颅education at Queen鈥檚 and their lifelong commitment to raising the family in Kingston were dear 颅to their hearts,鈥 reads the award description. 鈥淭hrough this award, those principles will live on through future learners.鈥

If you have memories of the Lees or wish to give to the Award鈥檚 endowment fund, please  or send an email.

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